A woman desperate for wedding advice already knows the answer: “Something’s not right.”

Posting her story on social media for others to see and comment on, one woman said she has been with her partner for five years and the couple has been engaged for four months, but with the wedding later In the coming months, she’s not sure what to do.

“So far, I’ve been very excited,” she wrote on Reddit. “But there’s a pit in my stomach that I’ve been trying to ignore. Something just isn’t right.”

He told others: “Any advice is appreciated, especially if you have had similar feelings.”

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She said that “in the last two years, I feel like I’ve fallen out of love. The man I used to be crazy about, I look at him and feel so much resentment. “I still love him, but I don’t like him.”

He learned, he added, that “his mother also absolutely hates me; I know I would marry him and not his mother, but finding that out seems like my breaking point.”

“I’m so hurt, ashamed and alone,” said one bride-to-be. (iStock)

He called his family “horrible people” and said he doesn’t “want to get involved any more in that, or any potential children we might have.”

His own family membersMeanwhile, she shared, “they have been so kind and welcoming to him. They absolutely adore him, while every effort I have made to be a part of their family has been completely rejected. I am so hurt, ashamed, and alone.”

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The economics of the event are a concern, he said.

“I am terrified of the shame and violent reaction of the family.”

“Right now, we have paid $800 for a non-refundable hotel rooma $1,600 deposit to our place and if we canceled, we would be charged another $2,000,” the woman said, using the name “ImaginaryKick5478.”

He said the rest of the expenses “would be borne by the family.”

She continued, “I know people will say that canceling a wedding is cheaper than getting a divorce in the future, but I really don’t have $4,500 to cover the sunk costs.”

“I feel like I’m on autopilot,” one bride-to-be wrote on Reddit, “and time is running out before the accident.” (iStock)

The woman said that “the most important thing is that I am terrified of the shame and the violent reaction of the family. My father, especially love my partner and he thinks there’s nothing wrong, and he wouldn’t support me if we broke up.”

She said there is no one “who is a support system in my life, and that reason alone is almost entirely the reason I have gone ahead with the wedding. I feel like I’m on autopilot and time is running out sooner.” of the accident”. “.

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She said she’s been suffering “real panic attacks” because of the idea of ​​”going through a difficult breakup while the family is so involved and likely to constantly bring up him and our failed engagement.”

“Leaving” the relationship, he said, “is a lot easier said than done.”

The woman added: “I’ve told all of these feelings directly to my fiancé and he thinks I’m just being dramatic and annoying and that my feelings will go away. I wish I knew that.” I have fallen in love. More importantly, I wish I still loved him like I used to.”

“I’d rather be in an unhappy marriage,” one woman wrote on social media, than have certain things happen to her. (iStock)

She continued: “I feel like being with him has been the biggest mistake of my life and I wish I could make it right.”

However, “leaving” the relationship, he said, “is a lot easier said than done.”

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She wrote: “It would ruin me financially and destroy my relationship with my immediate family, and I’d rather be in an unhappy marriage than have those two things happen.”

“Is there anything else I can do or is this just going to get worse?”

He ended his post this way: “I’m trying to maintain this relationship and do what I can to avoid calling it off, but I know time is running out. Couples therapy? a weekend away? “Is there anything else I can do or is this just going to get worse?”

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About 1,200 people have reacted to the drama so far. Reddit commenters were frank and direct with the original poster, with some suggesting that the woman already knew the answer to her dilemma.

“I see no other option but to cancel the wedding,” one person wrote.

“What is never acceptable is lying and deceiving someone, especially a loved one,” said one psychologist. (iStock)

Another said: “Stop people pleasing and make yourself happy.”

Another said, in part: “I think if you have to ask, deep down you know the answer.”

Someone else wrote in detail: “The price you pay to get out of your current circumstances will be much, much cheaper than the price you will pay in the future.” with children in tow (from a divorced father of five children).”

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Another person said, “Sister, you know what’s up.”

A clinical psychologist recently told Fox News Digital, in response to a different but somewhat similar wedding drama: “What is never acceptable is lying and deceiving someone, especially a loved one.”

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The psychologist said she would “encourage” the couple in difficulty “to speak privately with each family member involved, starting with the one closest to you,” and would try to let others know what is happening so the problem can be addressed. resolve.