I posted intimate photos of my wife online wearing some awesome underwear I bought her.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife gave me the night of my life when she posed in some stunning underwear I bought her.

She let me take intimate photos of her, including some naked ones, but I’m terrified our marriage is over since I posted them online.

I’m 38 years old and my wife is 36. We’ve been together for eight years and we have a five-year-old little boy.

It’s stupid, but I think I wanted to show how beautiful my wife is, and when I posted the photos, I got emotional.

The images are so hot because not only does she take care of herself, but she is also very confident in front of the lens.

I keep looking at the photos when I’m alone and I can’t believe I’m so lucky to have gotten her.

But I really should know better because we had a similar session years ago and I showed some of the photographs to my colleagues.

Then she went crazy and was about to break up with me.

Somehow, I managed to convince her and promised her that I would never do anything like that again.

So I was at my last chance.

She’s so angry this time that she doesn’t even look at me.

I’m terrified he’s planning to move in with our little one. I really should have known better.

I’ve been watching porn online since I was a teenager. I know I have a little problem with that, but even though I’ve tried, I can’t let it go.

I’m so embarrassed. This will hurt my wife a lot and I don’t understand why I need porn.

DEIDRE SAYS: It is a crime to share intimate images or videos of someone, whether online or offline, without their consent.

His wife could easily report him to the police. You can learn more about this through revengepornhelpline.org.uk.

If you really want to make amends, start seeking help for your addiction and tell your wife to show your commitment.

You must start putting your wife first, considering her in all decisions.

Consent can be going to your mother’s house for dinner or letting her choose what to watch on television. Make sure your wishes are central to everything.

You can find support for change through thelaurelcentre.co.uk and you should read my support pack Is porn ruining your life?